“I Humbly Beg Your Speedy Answer” Letters on Love & Marriage from the World’s First Personal Advice Column by Mary Beth Norton

My friend and co-worker Linda liked to review non-fiction books. She said she didn’t worry about giving too much away. She was also a daily reader of Dear Abby and loved to talk about the columns that outraged her. Mary Beth Norton’s new book, “I Humbly Beg Your Speedy Answer” Letters on Love & Marriage from the World’s First Personal Advice Column would have been the book for her.

In late 17th century England coffeehouses had become a popular venue where men met and discussed weighty and not so weighty topics. John Dutton pictured a publication to spur more discussion. He would solicit questions which he and his board (2 brothers-in-law) would answer. Dutton was a book seller, one brother-in-law a math tutor and the other a clergyman. These questions and answers were published as The Athenian Mercury, a broadsheet (single page front and back) that sold for a penny apiece.

The publication was a huge success. Dutton would accumulate twenty issues then bind them into a volume. The questions covered a wide variety of subjects and unexpectedly included a lot of queries on personal relationships. Plus, the questions came not just from men but women also. What resulted was the world’s first advice column.

Norton has gone through the volumes and culled out some of those questions on personal relationships to give a glimpse into seventeenth century English views on love and marriage. The book is divided into 6 chapters that cover the beginning of relationships to sometimes the end.

Courtship titled Kissing is a Luscious Diet answers questions such as how does a man know when a lady loves him, is absence or presence best for love, and where should a woman go to get a good husband (where there are less women, book a passage to the colonies). And the question for the answer kissing is a luscious diet? Is interrupting discourse by repeated kisses rude and unmannerly ….?

Chapter 2 is Choosing a Spouse. Questions include: are most matches made for money, should you marry a crabby religious woman or a non-religious woman with a good disposition and one of my favorites, which of the two women he loves should he marry? The answer, if all things are equal? Marry the shorter one, her dresses will require less material and be cheaper.

Next is the Parental Consent chapter which highlights how much control parents and family had over offspring. The most disturbing for me was the query from a teen whose mother had forced her to marry her beau’s 10-year-old son when she was 14.

Next Norton explores Vows and Promises. With marriage law not firmly established, how binding are vows and promises. According to the three men on the board vows and promises are very binding. Many of the questions concerned someone making those promises to more than one person.

After courting, choosing and promising we move onto Matrimony. Questions in this chapter are varied and include abandonment, infidelity, bigamy and sex. One question concerned a husband whose wife was sick and the doctor advised him to take a trip to avoid all possibility that she would become pregnant. Their advice was to see the next question. That question – was excessive tobacco use the cause of a couple unable to conceive. The board’s advice was for the first husband to use tobacco excessively. If his wife did not become pregnant then the second husband should stop using tobacco.

The final chapter is Dangerous Liaisons. It covers sex outside of marriage, same sex liaisons, infidelity and in a couple of cases rape and incest. In most of the answers they advise asking for repentance, and invariably favor the male in their answers. They do give kindly counsel to a young woman who asks if she could have become pregnant from a carnal dream and if so, can she end the resulting pregnancy before her father finds out.

Many of the issues raised in the questions in this book people are still seeking answers to today. It is enlightening to see how different the answers were 300 years earlier.

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Review written by: Patty Crane, Reference Librarian

Sister Snake by Amanda Lee Koe

Over the centuries, Su and Emerald have drifted in-and-out of each other’s lives. Long ago, they were two snakes living on the banks of a lake near Hangzhou, China. There, they heard a rumor of a lotus that could grant them immortality and the ability to turn into humans at will.

The two snakes – one white, one green – had survived much together, and sworn a bond of sisterhood. Su, the white snake, envied humans and wished to be one of them. Emerald was less eager, but wanted to make her sister’s wish come true.

They found the lotus and completed the ritual. Now living as humans, the two women want very different things out of life. Their opposing natures caused a lot of friction; the sisters have not spoken in many years.

Emerald is currently living in New York City, struggling to make ends meet. Her roommate, Bartek believes her to be a fellow twenty-something, just trying to figure things out.

The sisters’ serpentine nature is a secret that they rarely tell.

When Emerald is hurt in Central Park, opening up to Bartek is her only chance for survival. He is shaken, but he accepts who Emerald is and helps her to the best of his abilities.

Su’s life is very different. She has spent decades perfecting her ability to seem human. She has amassed assets all over the world. Her time has been spent cultivating her ideal existence – denying everything snake-like about herself.

Although she hasn’t seen her sister in many years, Su has been keeping tabs on her – monitoring the news for stories about green snakes in New York. When she sees the report, she instantly recognizes Emerald and jumps on a plane. Su is determined to bring Emerald back to Singapore and keep her out of trouble.

Su loves Singapore. The small island nation is beautifully designed and tightly run. Rules are clearly posted on signage and heavily enforced. She does not consider how Emerald will react to that level of governance. Nor does she consider how her husband – a minister in Singapore’s parliament – will react to her “wild sister.”

SISTER SNAKE by Amanda Lee Koe shows many facets of these two women. It is easy to write Emerald off as irresponsible – a woman who has acted like a teenager for hundreds of years. But the more that the book reveals about their history, the more the reader understands her determination to live a life full of experiences.

On the other hand, Su presents herself as a level-headed, rule-following woman – but the white snake has always been the more dangerous of the two.

 

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Book review by Alyssa Berry, Technical Services Librarian

AWAKE: A Memoir by Jen Hatmaker

I have been familiar with Jen Hatmaker for a long time, mostly through her work as an influencer on social media. First, when she was an outspoken and funny Christian leader, then later, as she publicly spoke out in opposition to her church’s view and in support of LGBTQ+individuals, and finally as a woman whose seemingly perfect life took an unexpected turn in midlife.

It is during this unexpected turn in 2020 that I started to follow her online. When she found out that her husband of 26 years was having an affair. This is not a spoiler. The first lines of AWAKE are, “At 2:30 a.m. on July 11, 2020, out of a dead sleep, I hear five whispered words not meant for me. ‘I just can’t quit you.’ It is the end of my life as I know it.” 

From that simple exchange Jen’s life changes immediately. She goes from being an upbeat, confident, influencer who seemed to have it all – family, looks, a career and a large social media following – to a divorced single parent with five children, who has no idea how to access her bank account, let alone explain to her large online audience that her life just fell apart. She is left questioning everything about herself and her life and feeling like a complete failure and a fraud.  

While it would be easy to expect Hatmaker to focus solely on her husband’s indiscretion, and how he is to blame for upending her entire world, she does not. In fact, she readily shares her role in what she refers to as the “flimsy house” of her life, and how it was built with “faulty bricks” like patriarchy, religious trauma, and body shame.  She uses the brick analogy not only to effectively show the causes of her failed marriage, but also the rebuilding of her life and her new sense of herself.  

The book is written in three parts – The End, The Middle and The Beginning. And it is not written in a linear fashion, with the author using vignettes, not chapters, to move from past memories to present ones throughout each section of the book. While it is the story of the loss of her marriage, it is also the story of her life, her 40+ years and the things that she has learned, and in some cases, unlearned. It is her story of turning inward to find herself and eventually reinventing many of the things she believed to be true. It is a beautifully hard journey, but one that Hatmaker endeavors to share fully and as transparently as she is able. 

In past books, Hatmaker has used her writing to instruct or tell others what they should know, think or feel about a particular subject; however, according to her, AWAKE is a “lantern” she is “holding up for women everywhere who need someone else to tell them, keep going.” Basically, so they know they are not alone. Her story and candidness seem to say that she understands “that no matter what you have lost, what has changed, what has shifted, no matter how brokenhearted you are,” someone “still believes some of your best days are ahead of you.” 

Anyone who has had a difficult phase in life will find something here to appreciate; maybe even cling to. Divorce, religious questioning, struggles with codependency and dissociation and so many other topics.  Hatmaker is not shy about sharing her journey and her full heart is shown in this lovely, engaging memoir.

 

Review written by: Jeana Gockley, Joplin Public Library Director

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Fall Reads

Ahh, fall. The weather is crisp, the leaves are falling, the boots are out, everything is pumpkin flavored, and the jack-o’-lanterns are glowing. And for readers, the book releases and fall themed reading lists are aplenty. As one of fall’s biggest fans I can’t help but look at a fall curated reading list and pick out a book or two to fit the season. I’ve already been enjoying reading with the season and have listed some of my recent fall reads. I’ve placed them in a range from cozy fall mystery to hair-raising horror.

Spells for Forgetting by Adrienne Young

I’ve read all of Young’s young adult novels and this was the first adult novel of hers I’ve read. Set on a fictional Pacific Northwest island, the atmosphere of Spells for Forgetting will shove fall down your throat (in the best way). The island is foggy, small-town, and forested, its community centered around the apple orchard on the island. There’s also an apothecary shop, a tea shop, and the women of the island often possess magic (what’s the word I’m looking for….oh right, FALL). Main character Emery Blackwood lost her best friend Lily in a mysterious murder 14 years ago, and although never proven, the town blames August Salt, friend to Lily and boyfriend to Emery. August left the island soon after Lily’s death, leaving Emery behind and broken-hearted in more ways than one. Now August has returned to the island for the first time since Lily’s murder, awaking unsolved questions and stirring up new ones, as well as stirring up feelings Emery has tried to bury deep. I enjoyed Young’s character development in this novel, and I liked the magical elements. The island itself felt like a character and the atmospheric setting of it all was itself magical. I would suggest this fall read for cozy mystery readers that enjoy a fantasy and romance twist.

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Immortal Dark by Tigest Girma

I enjoy a good dark academia read in the fall. Add in vampires, revenge, misunderstood villains, and romance, and I’ve got my bookmark ready. We meet the main character Kidan, an orphan, after her sister has been taken by a vampire while Kidan was not there to protect her. Kidan’s grief and rage over her missing sister fuel this novel; it leaps off the page, it feels real, and the unapologetic feminine rage was something I loved about this novel. To find and save her sister Kidan turns into a version of herself that becomes quite monstrous. Following her only clue, a name, Kidan enrolls in an elite university populated by humans and vampires and must live with the very vampire she is looking for: Susenyos. Tensions (and violence) are through the roof, but Kidan cannot take revenge against Susenyos without jeopardizing information about her sister. Kidan is singular in her goals, infiltrating an arcane society to find answers, yet Susenyos is complex and perhaps more than he seems. This novel is Girma’s debut. An Ethiopian author, Girma’s passion for West African myths and culture is a recurring aspect of the novel. I think this is a different take on the vampire dark academia novel, with an interesting vampire political system. This is a good fall read to sink your teeth into if you’re a dark academia fantasy reader.

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My Darling Dreadful Thing by Johanna van Veen

Last on my list is my favorite horror novel I’ve read so far this year. Set in the early 1950s this novel jumps between a psychiatrist’s session notes with patient Roos and flashbacks of Roos’s story. Roos’s story begins living with her mother and acting as the medium for seances. Some of the things Roos does are for show, like when her mother forces her to squeeze under the floorboards and pull ropes attached to objects in the room. But Roos isn’t all show. She has a spirit companion only she can see: Ruth. Ruth came to Roos under the floorboards one day and hasn’t left her side since. She protects Roos and is her only friend, and when Roos allows it, Ruth possesses her. After they receive new patron Agnes to their seances, who is trying to communicate with her recently deceased husband, Roos is sold by her mother to live with Agnes in one of the most gothic houses you can imagine. It’s eerie and dilapidated with odd sounds at night, and is home to Agnes’s sister-in-law, who is dying from tuberculosis. Roos and Agnes begin to form a bond that surpasses friendship, and secrets come out and events begin to unfold that had me slightly nervous to listen to the audiobook at night. Drenched in the macabre, van Veen references H.P. Lovecraft and Edgar Allan Poe as some of her inspirations, and that really comes through in this novel. I really enjoyed the shocking twists and turns, and van Veen’s writing was so compelling and fitting for the story. You might consult the content warnings on this one. My Darling Dreadful Thing is perfect for readers that enjoy gothic horror with sapphic romance. 

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TIG by Heather Smith

Before moving to Wensleydale, Tig and Peter spent months alone, without electricity, regular meals, and, most significantly, their mom. Tig’s mom, who struggles with addiction, would often leave for days or a week, but never months. Until now. Naturally, Tig and Peter have had to learn to survive on their own. Eventually, adults realize what is happening and intervene to help. But Tig isn’t happy about it. To hear Tig tell it, they were getting along just fine on their own. When Tig and Peter are forced to move in with distant family members in a picture-perfect village in England, Tig is determined to hate it. Hating the situation is especially hard because her Uncle Scott and Manny are patient and kind, even when Tig breaks their valuables, teases them somewhat cruelly, and steals from their favorite bakery.


Heather Smith’s middle grade novel Tig is geared toward upper elementary and early middle school-aged readers, but this is a book that readers of all ages will enjoy. When Tig first arrives in Wensleydale, Scott and Manny encourage her to keep a journal and create goals. In an act of defiance, Tig chooses a ridiculous goal: to win a cheese wheel race. She begins practicing regularly on a hill near her new house. She is willing to teach curious neighborhood kids but works hard to keep them at a distance. When Tig mentions wanting a dog, Scott and Manny are willing to consider it and even take the children to meet a dog in a neighboring town. The dog, who is rowdy, loud, and messy, is the dog Tig insists on having. Aside from the dog, Tig only trusts Peter, and she is sure to let her new guardians know. She is often unpleasant, mean, and unpredictable, though readers can see that she is testing boundaries. If the person who is supposed to love you unconditionally leaves you, how can you trust anyone else? Tig’s behavior is challenging, but readers will likely view this behavior through an empathetic lens and will find themselves cheering for her. Tig is an emotional read, but it is not only sad. Smith has crafted a story of an obstinate, lovable child; this novel might make you cry, but it will also give you hope.

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The Spinach King by John Seabrook

In John Seabrook’s The Spinach King: The Rise and Fall of an American Dynasty, the author notes Andrew Carnegie’s dictum of “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations.” It’s a fitting citation as the American dynasty at play here is in fact his own family. How the proverb diverges with the Seabrooks in particular is that instead of the third generation squandering the wealth created by the first, the Seabrook who creates a business empire is the very one who spitefully destroys it. If this sounds intriguing, settle into the story of the Seabrooks.

In the early twentieth century, New York City relied on—as it had for over a century—New Jersey farms to supply its markets with fresh produce. Known as the “Garden State,” New Jersey was quite literally New York City’s garden. One such gardener was C.F. Seabrook. Not only did he take over his father’s 60-acre farm, he transformed it from yet another cottage producer into a farming juggernaut. Using Henry Ford’s production models as a guide, he revolutionized farming by mechanizing his farm, most notably utilizing vast overhead irrigation systems.

Emboldened, he engaged in the time-honored practice of self-dealing. Using the permissive political climate of times, he became the highway commissioner not only to decide the road routes that would advantage his farming empire but also to profit from the road-building business he started. His intercontinental contacts even led to a contract with Joseph Stalin to build thousands of miles of roads throughout Russia. The effort basically ended before it started, however. Seabrook didn’t know how to engineer roads in the Russian climate. The roads fell apart soon after they were put down.

Wall Street creditors, no longer tolerating such a massively overbuilt enterprise, eventually called in the Seabrook loans. But Seabrook Farms would rebuild again, gaining a niche in freezing the vegetables they grew, thus ushering in the age of frozen store-bought vegetables. Of C.F.’s children, John Seabrook, the author’s father, would go on to display the most astute business acumen.

When writing about his father—and there’s a lot here—Seabrook seemingly lays everything out there. If anything, he’s writing almost to see if he can better know—actually know—his aloof yet caring father, a man who used his “WASP identity like razor wire to guard his true feelings.” Fair enough. Yet so much has been written about WASPs over the decades, we already know of the characteristics without reading about them once again. Still, how they manifest in John Seabrook is interesting in how they are told.

A Princeton graduate, Seabrook Sr. would go on to date Eva Gabor. An Anglophile in not only temperament but also in English tailoring, he later in life even had one of those clothing carousel contraptions you see at a dry cleaners installed in his bedroom. He was also dedicated to the sport of British coaching—basically driving a small team of horses while sitting atop a carriage, often sporting a top hat.

At times, Seabrook’s writing of his father almost appears hagiographic. Even under this bright-light memoir exposure, there’s quite a bit of admiration for his father. And it’s often the case that wealthy children who once had a temporary job where they had to get their hands dirty will forever hasten to relate how they once had a job where they had to get their hands dirty. Such is the case here.

But these are minor issues in a family story that’s ultimately tragic. Seabrook Farms probably would have continued to thrive under the leadership of John Seabrook Sr., a man who seemed naturally inclined to be a C.E.O. (Although there are some intriguing revelations later in the book.) The end came, nevertheless, at C.F.’s own hand, the paterfamilias who sought to destroy his own family. There’s a lot to unpack in this downfall. But I will say: I’m not sure what clinically constitutes a sociopath, but it seems as though C.F. certainly was one.

As one would expect from a staff writer at The New Yorker, Seabrook knows his way around a narrative. There’s no way this family history could be told without writing about social and political intersectionality. Even today, you can go visit Seabrook, New Jersey.

Still, this is a family memoir. And it’s affecting to see how Seabrook Sr. and Jr. almost observe each other as curiosities. It’s also dispiriting to read how Sr., once a dynamic and forward-thinking man, ended up an elderly man who digested too much cable news and ultimately displayed one of C.F.’s many loathsome traits: antisemitism, that “ancient Roman mind virus.”

In the end, Seabrook Sr.’s death wasn’t noted with a lengthy New York Times obituary. Perhaps it was for the best. Regardless of your success, or with how self-important you may feel, you can still end up being known simply as—as Art Buchwald once referred to Seabrook Sr.—“the frozen-food lima bean king from New Jersey.”

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Review by Jason Sullivan

The Busybody Book Club by Freya Sampson

What does a youth worker, a retired farmer, a teenage computer hacker and a septuagenarian Miss Marple wannabe have in common? In The Busybody Book Club by Freya Sampson it is the St. Tredock Community Book Club.

Nova Davies, the youth worker, is an employee of the St. Tredock Community Center and the book club was her idea. She is disappointed in the low turnout but determined to make the club a success. Septuagenarian Phyllis Hudson is our Agatha Christie fan and loves to involve herself in every crime she can, much to the displeasure of the constabulary. Arthur Robinson, a retired dairy farmer, was not much of a reader until he became his wife’s eyes. Now he is Nova’s most enthusiastic participant. Teen-ager Ash tends to keep quiet but his sporadic observations make it clear he has read the book.

The selection for the evening’s meeting was Where the Crawdads Sing and discussion has already begun when another participant comes in, Michael. Michael appears to be miserable but does add to the discussion until his phone pings. After looking at the message he jumps up, knocking over his chair, and runs from the room. Michael hasn’t reappeared by the end of the meeting so Nova locks up and goes home.

Home is her fiancé parent’s house. She and Craig moved from London a few months ago and are having trouble finding their own place. Pamela, Craig’s mother, is delighted they are there and has completely taken over planning their wedding. Nora’s own mom is in Colombia but will be back for the wedding in just 9 days.

It is storming the next morning so Nova goes in expecting to spend the day mopping up from the center’s leaky roof. However, what she finds is her boss, her co-worker/friend and the police waiting for her. The money for the center’s roof repair, ten thousand pounds, is missing and Nova was the last one in the building. When they look at the security footage they see Michael running out of the building. Since the cameras are at the entrance they don’t know where he was in the building so he also becomes a suspect.

Without the money for the roof repair the cash-strapped village council is threatening to close the center so it is imperative they find the missing ten thousand pounds. Phyllis, who has eavesdropped on the conversation, is certain Michael is the culprit. Using Miss Marple’s cases as a guide she sets off with her trusty companion, bulldog Craddock, to find the thief.

Her first stop is Michael’s home where she sees a body being removed. His mother was found at the bottom of the stairs and the police think she was pushed. After a loud argument, Michael was seen running out of the house and Phyllis is now sure she is chasing not only a thief but a murderer.

To save Nova’s job and the community center, the whole book club becomes involved in catching the thief. But as the clues are uncovered, the club finds things are really not what they seem and life can take some unexpected turns.

This feel-good novel has a little humor and a lot of heart. Sampson creates characters with depth and this book is as much about the relationships and lives of the book club members as about the mystery of the stolen money. You will find this in the New Large Print collection at the library. Read-alikes are book related cozy mysteries, The Marlow Murder Club by Robert Thorogood, and Charlaine Harris’ Sleep Like a Baby.

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Review by Patty Crane, Reference Librarian

Klara and the Sun by Kazuo Ishiguro

Klara is an Artificial Friend. She lives in a store with other AFs, waiting for a child to come in and choose her to be their companion. Every day the AFs are given a place in the store to stand as customers come in. The best part of the store is the area behind the big front window, where Klara is able to observe people passing by and feel the Sun.

AFs are solar powered, so the sun is important to all of them. But Klara sees the sun as a presence, with feelings and emotions like her.

She observes the Sun’s happiness when two people reconnect on the street in front of the store. She also sees the Sun’s special ability to heal when a homeless person and his dog are miraculously revived by the sun’s rays.

Not long after that experience, Klara is chosen by a girl named Josie. Josie and her mother have a house out in the countryside, but her mother commutes to work every day. Klara will be there to spend time with Josie and help keep her happy.

Like many children in her peer group, Josie has been “lifted” – genetically modified to improve her intelligence. Unfortunately, Josie suffered some side effects from this procedure and is frequently ill.

The illness is unpredictable, forcing Josie to stay in bed for weeks at a time. It is also very serious. Some children who exhibit these symptoms do not survive.

As Klara gets to know Josie and her world, she presents anecdotes largely without opinion. But she does possess deep insight into what people are feeling or thinking. When she lets these insights slip, it is a reminder to the reader not to underestimate her abilities – her intelligence may be artificial, but it is well-honed.

The focus of KLARA AND THE SUN is on interpersonal relationships between the people in Josie’s limited world. Klara is able to interact with each of them and develop her own relationships with them.

Readers only get a sense of the larger world: glimpses of persistent anti-robot sentiment and the ways that people’s lives have adjusted in this version of the future. Josie’s friend Rick is very smart, but he is not lifted. As Josie and Rick grow up, Klara observes how that affects what he can expect from his future.

Throughout the novel, Klara is looking back on her life. She is reminiscing about her own history. She lets the reader know that these events have all passed, but keeps the outcome to herself until the end.

Klara herself is a very interesting character. She uses unusual speech patterns when speaking to other characters, but her internal monologue flows very smoothly. Although she is not human, she feels real. The reader never questions the validity of her experience, even when confronted with the facts of her artificial nature.

 

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Book review by Alyssa Berry, Technical Services Librarian

The Word is Murder: A Novel (A Hawthorne and Horowitz Mystery, 1) by Anthony Horowitz

New York Times bestselling author Anthony Horowitz takes a crack at writing a modern-day classic crime novel. In this series he casts himself as Dr. Watson to disgraced police detective Daniel Hawthorne’s Sherlock Holmes.  It is an intriguing premise that allows the author of the book to be one of the main characters.  At first I was not sure how I felt about it, but I ended up really liking it, and  I had no idea who the killer was until the big reveal at the end. 

Book one features a mystery that revolves around a woman who visits a London funeral parlor on a bright spring morning, to plan her own service, and then six hours later she is found strangled in her home. 

Daniel Hawthorne, former police detective turned consultant, is called in by the police to help solve the case; and while he’s sharp and intelligent, he is not very likeable. So when Hawthorne first asks celebrated novelist Anthony Horowitz to write a book about him and the case, Horowitz is not sure it is a winning idea. He is a bit hard up for material though, so decides to partner with Hawthorne and reserve judgement about how likely a book is until later. However, as the case unfolds, Horowitz gets sucked into the case and starts to see the potential in writing a book.  So much so that he finds himself trying to solve the murder himself because Hawthorne is very secretive and a mystery himself.

This mystery offering by Horowitz is intriguing and will keep most readers guessing up until the end. The characters are well drawn, with Hawthorne stealing the show. 

It is interesting that Horowitz is writing about himself, as a writer, and includes insight into his professional life. This includes what has worked well for him–his Alex Rider series–but also where he has had challenges.  He never takes himself too seriously and this behind the scenes style is unusual, but effective. I just finished the third book in this series and enjoyed the second and third, just as much as the first, maybe more because I already knew the characters and the story background so it took me less time to understand all the relationships.  

Review written by: Jeana Gockley, Joplin Public Library Director

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POPCORN by Rob Harrell

All seventh grader Andrew Yeager, the protagonist of Rob Harrell’s Popcorn, wants is to have a nice picture for Picture Day this year. The new seventh grader struggles with anxiety and OCD anyway, but he has a lot on his plate lately. His mom is starting a new job and is under a lot of stress. His grandma, who he calls G, has moved into their two-bedroom apartment and Andrew is stuck sleeping on the couch. G also has Alzheimer’s and his once funny and lively grandma sometimes doesn’t even recognize him. Andrew’s mom took on a higher paying job to pay for G to move into a nursing home. Money has been a struggle for them, so this job has to work out. With so much out of his control, Andrew just wants to be sure that he takes a nice photo. His mom even splurged on an expensive button-up shirt from Banana Republic.

You see where this is going. Andrew hoped for a normal day that would end in a good picture and a clean t-shirt. Instead, he ends up navigating a day that might as well be titled Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day: the Middle School Years. Andrew is lucky to have his lifelong best friend Jonesy by his side, but he is worried that she is more interested in hanging out with her basketball teammates. His anxiety, which is depicted as an increasingly warmed popcorn kernel, only worsens as he worries about his G’s sudden disappearance, is bullied by Gene Phillips, and is inexplicably squirted in the face with ketchup, which triggers his germaphobia.

Harrell has made a name for himself with the Batpig series and Wink, which was nominated for Missouri’s Mark Twain Award. As he notes in the afterword, Popcorn was inspired by his own struggles with anxiety and OCD. The author marks the perfect balance between heavier topics and lighter moments. Harrell never chooses one over the other; as Andrew’s anxiety spirals into a panic attack, his art teacher is right there with him, co-regulating. Sometimes his anxiety makes him mean, but readers get to witness adults, and even a few of his peers, who step up and help him navigate difficult emotions. Andrew is also humorously perceptive about the people around him, though never in a way that feels cruel. These funny observations are reinforced through Harrell’s hand-drawn sketches, which appear on most pages. Sometimes they take the form of comics featuring his anxiety-ridden alter ego, Tense Kid. Other times, the drawings are small and act as a humorous commentary on the subject at hand. Andrew’s picture day may not go as he planned, and he may be struggling with mental health issues, but Popcorn does not feel especially heavy or too much for the average middle school reader. Through Andrew’s therapist, teachers, friends, and mom, readers will gain insight into coping skills and positive relationships. Not every reader will relate exactly to Andrew’s struggles, but every reader could use the reminder that, like Andrew, they will be okay.

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